How to Play (& Win) White Elephant

How to Play White Elephant: A Guide to the Holiday Gift Swap Game

A combination of surprise, strategy, and a little bit of chaos—a perfect way to spice up your seasonal celebrations. Here's how to play White Elephant and make it an unforgettable part of your party.

 

 

What You’ll Need

  1. A Group of People: The more, the merrier. White Elephant works best with 6 or more participants.
  2. Gifts: Each participant should bring a wrapped gift. Set a price range (e.g., under $100) and specify whether gifts should be funny, practical, or a mix of both. We recommend encouraging something sparkly...like HART jewelry.    
  3. Numbered Slips: These determine the order of play.

Step-by-Step Instructions

Step 1: Gather and Arrange the Gifts

Place all the wrapped gifts in a central location. Make sure they’re anonymous— aka no tags.

Step 2: Draw Numbers

Each player draws a number to decide the order. The person with #1 starts, and play proceeds numerically.

Step 3: Player #1 Chooses a Gift

The first player picks any gift from the pile and opens it for everyone to see.

Step 4: Player #2 Takes a Turn

The next player can either:

  • Steal the gift from Player #1, or
  • Choose a new gift from the pile.

Step 5: Continue Around the Circle

Each subsequent player has the same choice: steal an already opened gift or pick a new one.

 

The Rules of Stealing

  1. Limit on Steals: A gift can only be stolen 3 times before it’s "frozen" and can no longer be taken.
  2. No Immediate Re-Stealing: If someone steals your gift, you must pick a new one from the pile (or steal from someone else later in the round).
  3. Ending a Round: Each round ends when every player has had a turn, and a gift is in their possession.

Final Turn Twist

After all the players have taken a turn, Player #1 gets a chance to swap their gift with anyone else—unless their gift is frozen. This keeps everyone on edge until the very end!

How to Win White Elephant 

HART gifts on the table